A hinge partner—especially someone new to polyamory or raised in a conflict-averse household—may feel overwhelmed by the disputes and differing needs of their partners. As the bridge between your partners, a lot rests on your shoulders. You can’t shirk responsibility or force kitchen table polyamory if it doesn’t work for everyone. Likewise, being a people-pleaser won’t serve you in navigating polyamory successfully. You need to sit with discomfort, clearly identify what you want, and communicat